Wedding Decor, Wedding Trends, Wedding Tips
What You Should Know About Having a Wishing Well
Oct
As wishing wells have become more and more popular in recent weddings, there aren’t too many clear rules when it comes to gifting cash and giving the newlyweds money instead of traditional gifts. Let’s get down to business and learn what you and all other soon-to-be brides should know about wishing wells.
Wedding Wishing Well and Wedding Gifts
Not everyone is comfortable with giving money.
Some guests are looking forward to seeing a wishing well, as they didn’t have the time to get you a gift or they might have preferred giving the newlyweds cash for convenience practicality. On the other hand, there are also wedding guests who love giving gifts, who like gift wrapping and who enjoy giving loved ones little handmade trinkets for the home or matching items to be worn by the newlyweds. The crowd will be divided when it comes to giving out cash gifts and even if they do give to the wishing well, the amount is also another topic among guests.
Related read: How Much Money Should You Give in a Wishing Well?
Communicate well what the money is for.
To give the wishing well little personal touch, it is best to give the guests a great reason behind asking for cash. Traditionally, the bride and groom ask for help with the downpayment of their new home or an additional boost to fund their dream honeymoon. However, with modern couples, some already have a home of their own or they have their honeymoon already planned out. If you are opting to renovate the master’s bedroom or upgrade your car to fit little car seats at the back, don’t hesitate to say so and let the guests know how they can help you in your new life chapter.
Related read: How to Ask for Cash Instead of Wedding Gifts Without Being Awkward
Keep the wishing well in a quiet spot at the back.
Place the wishing well at the back of the reception venue, where guests can freely walk up to it without getting too much attention. Make sure it is close enough to be visible from the bridal party’s view, so no one gets any ideas on running away with the box and to also help replenish the envelopes in case you have run out. Avoid placing it in a highly prominent area but make sure guests still get to pass by and not miss it until the end of the night.
You might be surprised with each envelope.
Not everyone will give the same amount as others put into the well and that is the beauty of wishing wells – there are no fixed rules. Be grateful with each and every card you get and don’t get offended if it is smaller than you expect. They might not have cash with them during the big day or they might have already prepared a gift for you and your beloved spouse. After all, it is still the thought that counts, right?
Prepare a treat to show your gratitude for everyone who gave.
When all is said and done, don’t forget to express your thanks. Send a photo of you with your new house or grab a picture-perfect honeymoon moment to show your appreciation to everyone who pitched in. Have photo cards printed for your beloved guests, who might be your closest friends or family members, who might have given a little bit more generously than you expected to show your sincere appreciation.
